Jen has stayed at the hospital for some extra time tonight, so I, Chris, have the privelege of writing the update on Robert. We got to the hospital this morning to find he had had a horrible night, with spiking temperature, high heart rate, and a reaction to a drug they had given him for pain and muscle spasms. He had dreadful hallucinations which scared him badly and made him feel like he was dieing. As the day went on, things calmed down. His heart rate returned to more acceptable levels, his temperature normalized, but he was still confused. Everytime he would doze, he woke up totally disoriented, thinking he was somewhere else. He was really bothered when he realized he couldn't tell reality from what was going on in his mind. However, as long as he was awake, he was okay.
On the bright side, he was able to have his first drink of water. That was a moment worth a smile. He also drank juice, chicken broth, and ate some green jello. By evening he was in a much better place than he had been this morning, But in order to help him stay calm tonight, we're going to take shifts spending the night with him.
Keep praying for Robert's recovery process, for complete healing, and for his peace of mind. Thankyou for keeping all of us in your prayers. We are encouraged to know that so many people care, share our pain, and are faithfully praying.
Chris for the gang
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Robert: While praying for you the Lord said to me very clearly, 'I am with Robert. You don't even need to ask. I have started My work already. I will never leave him.
Prayers from a lady at Calvary Batist
Our hearts hurt with yours - and then are united in prayer with yours as well. Sending so much love & prayers for you,
Al & Elaine.
Robert..I was reluctant to share this yesterday...while I was praising the LORD yesterday morning I had a vision of you on your hospital bed and there were big angels all around your bed. One was singing praises, another quoting scripture, others were praying and the rest were specifically guarding you. A HOly presence in your room. Each of your parents and Jen had an angel behind them. "Do not for I am with you.." Isaiah 43:5 (43:1-5)
"Behold,I have graven thee upon the palms of my hands; thy walls are continually before me." Isaiah 49:16 I pray this is an encouragement...in JESUS name.
Hey Lavigne family,
We love the blogs, they help us to pinpoint our prayers and to "feel" with you.
I am sure the Lord is pleased with your dependence on Him, and He cannot fail his children. May you continually feel renewed, strengthened and covered by the Holy Spirit of God.
We love you so much, we all pray continually for each of you.
Del, Debby, Kurt, Priss, Sonja, Dustin & Kandace
I wouldnt say I am a friend of Rob's, we went to school together for many years and had the same classes pretty much every semester and then I saw him around the UNBC campus all-the-time this year.I was floored when I was told what happened. My prayers are with him and your family. Why is it that things of this sort must always happen to those who lease deserve it? I pray all the more for Rob's spirit and will to hold to get him through this challange so his future continues to shine as bright as it once did.
Hi to the Lavignes. Wow what a ride. We are praying for all of you. The first couple of days and nights post surgery are very tough. How did the night go? Be encouraged that there are a host of people praying constantly for you. God is good. Rosemary
We just wanted to let Robert and the family know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers, especially Robert. We pray that he has a quick recovery, and that God has given you all peace of mind. You aren't alone!
Sending prayers,
Chris & Kaylen
Thank you for taking the time to update us, share your feelings and tell us what to pray for. It helps us feel closer to you and a little more helpful.
We rejoice every step forward with you (green jello ugh!:), understand your frustrations & fears, and are so thankful that the three of you are able to be with Robert.
I know that God has wrapped his arms around all of you. When you are tired, rely on Him and rely on our prayers to help.
Blessings and hugs,
Don & Terry
I am sitting in the public library reading the last few blog reports and trying not to bawl my eyes out. I don't know you Jen but wow, you amaze me with your ability to express your feelings. I have a real soft spot in my heart for your mom and dad. They are both such sweethearts so I can imagine what you must be like. I feel terrible sorrow for the horrible things Robert has suffered especially with the reactions to the meds. I have been trying to explain to my 6 year old son why we are praying for Robert and he said last night "Oh man that must have really hurt bad!" He likes that he shares Robert's name (his middle name is Robert). I'm praying like crazy that Robert doesn't have to go through another night like that again. I pray relief from the pain and a full night of deep peaceful sleep for him tonight. In Jesus name. Amen. PS We really miss you Tom and Chris but I'm thankful that you are able to be by your sons side through this. Love & Hugs, Angeline
Hello Jen, Robert and Mom & Dad,
Jen has told you of our biggest trial with Julia's cancer.
So I share and pray boldy crying as mother and dear teacher and now friend to Jen.
My tears are with you and my deep faith that God has promised every event whether by our own fallings or his allowed testings like yours Robert......know it is NOT good.....but what is good is GOD has promised to make you more like HIm through this even if Satan thinks He has an upper hand right now...we know God is faithful and will pull you ALL through as you continue to choose this HUGE God who is both LION and LAMB. Romans 8:28&29
Dear, dear Jennifer when I was in the hospital with Julia filled with so much ANGER knowing in my heart I could literally Shoot somebody--the injustices of human error had reached a pinnacle and no one was making it right for my 3 year old...yes even God said not yet!!......I YELLED to him LIFE IS NOT FAIR and He said VERY clearly....You are right LIFE IS NOT FAIR but know with All Your HEART I KNEW LIFE WAS NOT GOING TO BE FAIR TODAY....I AM WITH YOU...... AM I ENOUGH??
This journey has been long for me and He still asks me but I answer easier these days and I love him more and I don't fight the same because my FEAR and understanding of God's sovereignty is different and I know he came to this SINFUl world full of sickness and pain not to bring justice to THIS world but Hope Peace and salvation for a NEW World to come. Yet I pray with all my might knowing HE does say "yes" and his Power is no less. My anger can become his anger...He hated injustice, sickness, pain...Yet he conceded in his heart never doubting God's perfect plan.....and as He fought His will in the Garden it was BLOOD SWEAT & TEARS, but once he chose it was for the JOY set before him He ENDURED the Cross and NEVER Despised his sufferings...it was not SHAMEFUL to him.
O GOD we need your Sons ability to carry such sorrow with Joy and I THANK you for the witness of your work in Robert and this AMAZING Family.
Jennifer Darling your Lord is pleased with you as you grapple with this and wrestle with him as Jacob did. Your comfort will be GREAT as He brings through this over the next years.
My friend I love You and I am sorry this has to be right now. Please share with Robert and your family with my love and understanding.
TO EVERYONE OUT HERE PRAYING I CHARGE US ALL....when you have No words and it LOOKS the bleakest -----speak write God's word even when you FEEL they are PAT Hypocritical words because believe me God's spirit He will bring them to remembrance and his seeds will be planted especially in the crazy moments when there are too many beeps in the night and fears merge...we have nothing else in this world in these moments.
Forever in Christ,
Christy Derksen (Jen's RMC vocal instructor)
Robert and family, I can't believe the strong, energetic, goofy Robert is not invinsible! During DTS he was so fun to have as one of our group, always a good sport and a heart that loves and cares so deeply. Rob, I hope you get better everyday and you don't let this slow you down. I know your attitude will carry you far. I'm praying for you, your family, and the doctors and nurses. I'm looking forward to the posts that tell me you are walking around going home. Thanks to your family for keeping us posted. Much love and support, Laura from Sports DTS, now in California.
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